Single mums are true. If you have met a single mother who is not true to herself, loves her child and is committed then I do not know what kind of mothers you are meeting them. They are strong, independent, don’t like to be played with because they have a child involved. If you are thinking of dating a single mother, this means you take her and her child as a whole package. Are you ready for that? That is responsibility right there. by the time she even thinks of introducing you to her child, she would have already done a whole background check on you to ensure you are being legitimate with her. Remember, no jokes. It is either you are in or out.
Her child will always come first. Her child’s needs and wants are her priority. She knows where her priorities lie. I feel she was to choose whom she wanted, she would definitely pick her child over you because the mother-child bond will be stronger.
It is not easy dating a single mother because she will have other priorities(her child) to take care of. So if you are in it for the long haul, kudos for you. That woman will love you and cherish you because you are being there for her and her son.
If you date a single mum, be ready for her independence. She is really very independent. She has been doing one hundred percent of everything before she met you. Don’t feel offended if she sometimes doesn’t ask you for help. She knows she has every single detail covered. With or without you she will make it through.
She will be honest with you. Honesty to her is the best policy. Let’s face it . You are either in or out when dating her. You already know the reason why. You will actually gain her respect for telling the truth. So please don’t waste her time, time is too precious for her.
A single mum is done with games. Many women want a serious relationship, but with single mums please don’t joke with them. They want stability and not every Tom, Dick and Harry. This is because they have to be sure who they will introduce their son or daughter to. The man should be ready if he isn’t really prepared to date a single mum. If you are just “in it to win it”, honey you will lose. Do not put yourself out there if you are just going to play around with her.
You need to be patient with her. She will be a delicate flower because trust needs to be earned. If you will be in it for the long haul you need to show her your commitment, that way she will be more free and will want to share her life with you. She once felt betrayed. Please don’t do the same to her.
They never really second guess themselves. Yes there are doubts out here and there but when she settles on something she goes for it. Why not be that person who she feels free around. Don’t make her doubt her decision.
Would you date a single mum? Have you dated a single mum? Share your thoughts.