What is the definition of communication? Someone please look it up for me in the dictionary. In lay mans language, communication is the art of passing on information. Meaning from one person to another.
Ladies how do you feel about your man not talking to you? Sorry he’s not communicating with you? It is a horrible feeling. Right?
Well, we have all been there once, twice, perhaps a hundred times. When you go on a date or dates what is the first thing you say you want in your man? For me, it is someone who knows how to communicate with me.
Yes men might be different but what is so wrong with talking with your girlfriend once or twice a day? Come on guys, if she sends you a message she expects a response. Please don’t respond a day later. Nah ah. That isn’t communication. I don’t even know where that lies, in which category, what term we can use for that.
I know it sounds crazy, but if i text you at 10:01, I expect a response at 10:02, or 10:05, but not 14:20. Get it? There is a thrill in responding immediately you know, chances of boredom are zero. Chances of a break up might also be nil.
Is it so hard to comply?
I know men are wired differently and that might be hard, but at least try to make an effort. Effort never killed anyone. I know someone will gang up on me and say “But Steve Harvey says…”. Forget Steve Harvey. Leave him out of it. You shouldn’t be quoting him. He knows how to deal with his own,you deal with yours.
What usually happens to guys when they get to know a mama, everything is on point I mean from day one, there is very good chemistry. And then one day somewhere along the line, poof, it disappears it just goes.
From talking, texting,Whatsapping every single day, 24/7 to being non responsive and using one word texts and having an ” I don’t care attitude”, it’s like he got hit by a truck. There is no explanation, and then he hits you with the “it’s not you, it’s me” kind of vibe. What The Hell!!😱 who does that?
In my take, mature,grown a$% men should not do that. Guys to be honest, it just makes you look dam. And irresponsible. So please style up, man up, grow up.
Ladies, if you start noticing signs, please be the one to show him the door. Don’t wait to be given a lame excuse.